"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I have a problem i think what do i do to keep a woman intrested , i think im doing the right things :
im including her in going to lunch with my friends rather than not inviting her
IF there is a movie she would like to see that maybe im not particularly intrested in , but ask her out anyway i assume im doing a good job if she says yes
so im assuming im doing ok with her in the dating department m, she would be willing to go out with me for future events
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sounds to me like you're making yourself too available to your lady targets. You say you invite them to lunch with your friends and yourself. Why can't you tell her "hey babe, going to lunch with my friends... back later"? As long as you're giving her a decent amount of time to spend together with her, thats good enough. And the whole going to a movie she likes but you dont thing doesnt fly with me if its done always. Do you call girls often when you're dating? How often? Are you a challenge? These are things you need to ask yourself and then you will know. If you haven't read the DJ bible you should. Lots of info in there that you could benefit from. Best of luck my friend.
 
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Here is what I posted on another recent thread...

Your problem is that you think you have to be her entertainer and her social promoter, or her tour guide! This is not the man's job!!!! Your own manly presence and company should keep her for the most part! If you have other worthy things going on in your llife, this willl give you the esteem and confidence to know that a 'good' woman would see these positive qualities and desire to stay!

A woman wants to be with you just as much, if not more, than you want to be with her!! Is she worried about entertaining you? Absolutely not! So why in the heck are you worried about being a socialite and not worried about being a man?

Men don't try to imprees women - that is not our duty.

Your duty is to seek female company and determine if you two are compatible with one another - courting/dating is to find out the answer~
 
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::Golf Clap Heard In Distance::

Well put PRLover. As the man your presence should be enough for the woman. I almost shed a tear PR when I read that. VIVA LA RASA! HISPANOS UNIDOS! Sorry, heh.
 
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