“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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jhonny9546

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Hi! It's very common to hear about how to keep the frame with women.

Has anyone ever wondered how to keep it with men?
Are you usually kinder and more understanding with other men, compared to women?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Pretty simple, your frame is about you, not them. Your boundaries, your goals, your values. It's not a pose. It's 100% authentic you. Obviously there is always room for compromise or change. But that all falls into your frame too. So obviously yes care about that, but don't be worried about everyone else or how you're perceived.
 

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Pretty simple, your frame is about you, not them. Your boundaries, your goals, your values. It's not a pose. It's 100% authentic you. Obviously there is always room for compromise or change. But that all falls into your frame too. So obviously yes care about that, but don't be worried about everyone else or how you're perceived.
its just who you are
This is basically being "close-minded" with your thoughts.
What I call close-minded is a IDGAF attitude.

But I also think that if something interest us, we should enter that frame?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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This is basically being "close-minded" with your thoughts.
What I call close-minded is a IDGAF attitude.

But I also think that if something interest us, we should enter that frame?
I don't see it that way exactly. Definitely be open minded. Don't cling to identities. For instance if you tell yourself "I'm just not a public speaker" then chances are you won't be. So you have to disabuse yourself of such a notion to change. And then yes, you go into it.

"Frame" is simply accepting yourself 100% in whatever moment. Always reserve the right to change, learn, grow, and be humbled.
 

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Look up Shayan Wahedi's channel on YT for excellent counsel on the subject
 
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