Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Pretty simple, your frame is about you, not them. Your boundaries, your goals, your values. It's not a pose. It's 100% authentic you. Obviously there is always room for compromise or change. But that all falls into your frame too. So obviously yes care about that, but don't be worried about everyone else or how you're perceived.
This is basically being "close-minded" with your thoughts.
I don't see it that way exactly. Definitely be open minded. Don't cling to identities. For instance if you tell yourself "I'm just not a public speaker" then chances are you won't be. So you have to disabuse yourself of such a notion to change. And then yes, you go into it.
