"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Keeping fit on holiday?

JayCee23

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Hey, been a while since i posted.. after exams I'm going to Sweden for a week with family which sucks ass as i won't be able to train, just in a hotel room and my diet will go to **** basically.

So does anyone have any tips for keeping in shape when on holiday? What sort of workout I might be able to do in a hotel room other than pushups and bodyweight squats etc? and how to maintain a healthy diet when I'll probably be eating out every night and eating in a hotel for breakfast etc?

Many thanks.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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simon

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It's only a week, don't worry about it too much. Just enjoy your holiday and get everything back into order when you get back. You can do pushups, bodyweight squats, morning walking if it makes you feel better. See if the hotel has any kind of gym or pool.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Is it a large hotel with a gym? Call ahead and find out. If not, bring along some running shoes to jog or run flights of stairs. Also bring a jumprope, hopefully the ceilings are too low. You can always do reverse dips off the edge of a chair too and put a loaded suitcase in your lap for added resistance.
 

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Man.. Dont be obsessed with your lifestyle. Sure its great that you train and so on. But ffs its only a week let go, just dont eat too ****ing much and walk. You wont get fat in a week
 

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a) enjoy the holiday and push yourself that little bit extra when you get back to a regular schedule.

b) go for a 30 minute jog each morning, do some bodyweight exercises(pushups, chinups, pullups, lunges, situps), and then do some stretching and flexibility training.

Don't be too anal about eating on a holiday, just make sure you eat some protein each day.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I-tallionStallion

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When's the last time you've had a week off? If its been a couple months, it's time to relax
 
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