"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Keeping fit on holiday?

JayCee23

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Hey, been a while since i posted.. after exams I'm going to Sweden for a week with family which sucks ass as i won't be able to train, just in a hotel room and my diet will go to **** basically.

So does anyone have any tips for keeping in shape when on holiday? What sort of workout I might be able to do in a hotel room other than pushups and bodyweight squats etc? and how to maintain a healthy diet when I'll probably be eating out every night and eating in a hotel for breakfast etc?

Many thanks.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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simon

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It's only a week, don't worry about it too much. Just enjoy your holiday and get everything back into order when you get back. You can do pushups, bodyweight squats, morning walking if it makes you feel better. See if the hotel has any kind of gym or pool.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Is it a large hotel with a gym? Call ahead and find out. If not, bring along some running shoes to jog or run flights of stairs. Also bring a jumprope, hopefully the ceilings are too low. You can always do reverse dips off the edge of a chair too and put a loaded suitcase in your lap for added resistance.
 

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Man.. Dont be obsessed with your lifestyle. Sure its great that you train and so on. But ffs its only a week let go, just dont eat too ****ing much and walk. You wont get fat in a week
 

Quiksilver

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a) enjoy the holiday and push yourself that little bit extra when you get back to a regular schedule.

b) go for a 30 minute jog each morning, do some bodyweight exercises(pushups, chinups, pullups, lunges, situps), and then do some stretching and flexibility training.

Don't be too anal about eating on a holiday, just make sure you eat some protein each day.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I-tallionStallion

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When's the last time you've had a week off? If its been a couple months, it's time to relax
 
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