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English_Bloke

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Well im getting into the right mind frame for being a DJ. So far ive had an awesome week. Today I made sure I talked to at least 5 girls that I never talked to, It went great and they seemed really cool with it. I made sure they talked a lot as well.

I have no problem talking with girls, maybe a little more with kino on some newer girls but overall I dont have problems with that stuff. Its just keeping it up. I will talk to a hot girl 1 day and then the next just ignore her - obviously giving out the wrong signals. I dont know why I do stuff like this and then I just retreat back to my normal group of girls I flirt with.

Am I just being lazy or am I doing something wrong?
 

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Originally posted by English_Bloke
I will talk to a hot girl 1 day and then the next just ignore her - obviously giving out the wrong signals.
WRONG signals? Incorrect!
Giving attention...then TAKING IT AWAY...
That's the genius side of your natural attractiveness shining through.
As you're on your journey of learning more about attraction theory, you will stumble upon an epiphany of what I mean by this.

You're doing just fine. Relax. Keep up the good work!
 

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Yeah Grim is right about doing the right things... But I believe u still need to give her attention,

so just mix it all up so some days u r giving attention and the next u arent then u do then u dont, maybe not change everyday maybe for 3 days in a row do then 2 to 4 dont
 

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Ah thanks. Before ive tried intentionaly doing hot and cold stuff to confuse girls but not that much. Now I im just doing that without thinking about it. Thanks for the advice!
 
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