"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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English_Bloke

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Well im getting into the right mind frame for being a DJ. So far ive had an awesome week. Today I made sure I talked to at least 5 girls that I never talked to, It went great and they seemed really cool with it. I made sure they talked a lot as well.

I have no problem talking with girls, maybe a little more with kino on some newer girls but overall I dont have problems with that stuff. Its just keeping it up. I will talk to a hot girl 1 day and then the next just ignore her - obviously giving out the wrong signals. I dont know why I do stuff like this and then I just retreat back to my normal group of girls I flirt with.

Am I just being lazy or am I doing something wrong?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Michael Chief

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Originally posted by English_Bloke
I will talk to a hot girl 1 day and then the next just ignore her - obviously giving out the wrong signals.
WRONG signals? Incorrect!
Giving attention...then TAKING IT AWAY...
That's the genius side of your natural attractiveness shining through.
As you're on your journey of learning more about attraction theory, you will stumble upon an epiphany of what I mean by this.

You're doing just fine. Relax. Keep up the good work!
 

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Yeah Grim is right about doing the right things... But I believe u still need to give her attention,

so just mix it all up so some days u r giving attention and the next u arent then u do then u dont, maybe not change everyday maybe for 3 days in a row do then 2 to 4 dont
 

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Ah thanks. Before ive tried intentionaly doing hot and cold stuff to confuse girls but not that much. Now I im just doing that without thinking about it. Thanks for the advice!
 
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