"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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English_Bloke

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Well im getting into the right mind frame for being a DJ. So far ive had an awesome week. Today I made sure I talked to at least 5 girls that I never talked to, It went great and they seemed really cool with it. I made sure they talked a lot as well.

I have no problem talking with girls, maybe a little more with kino on some newer girls but overall I dont have problems with that stuff. Its just keeping it up. I will talk to a hot girl 1 day and then the next just ignore her - obviously giving out the wrong signals. I dont know why I do stuff like this and then I just retreat back to my normal group of girls I flirt with.

Am I just being lazy or am I doing something wrong?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Michael Chief

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Originally posted by English_Bloke
I will talk to a hot girl 1 day and then the next just ignore her - obviously giving out the wrong signals.
WRONG signals? Incorrect!
Giving attention...then TAKING IT AWAY...
That's the genius side of your natural attractiveness shining through.
As you're on your journey of learning more about attraction theory, you will stumble upon an epiphany of what I mean by this.

You're doing just fine. Relax. Keep up the good work!
 

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Yeah Grim is right about doing the right things... But I believe u still need to give her attention,

so just mix it all up so some days u r giving attention and the next u arent then u do then u dont, maybe not change everyday maybe for 3 days in a row do then 2 to 4 dont
 

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Ah thanks. Before ive tried intentionaly doing hot and cold stuff to confuse girls but not that much. Now I im just doing that without thinking about it. Thanks for the advice!
 
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