"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Keeping a record so i can ask advice etc.

Moneytalks

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I'm going to game one girl. It's what I do best.

Monday: We hung out with some friends, I got trashed and walked her home at the end of the night. Hugged her and went for a kiss but fell flat on my face. Don't think she realised what i was trying to do-she was pretty drunk.

Tuesday: She text me a bit to see what I was upto:
"Timmmmmmm What're you doin'? I'm BORED! xx"
"I'm at work. I'll give Paul your number because he's looking for new waitresses. I'll talk to you later because I'm pretty busy. Hope you're ok.x"
*few hours later*
"I'm good ta, had to get more credit. SO BORED still!xx"
"haha I'm still fucking hungover xx"
No more

Wednesday: I text her to see what she was doing tonight:
"Yo, what are you upto tonight?xx"
"I'm staying at my sister's in XXXXXX mate. xx"
"Fair enough :)xx"

She's staying at her sister's so I didn't want to bother her anymore. I'm not sure when I'll be free again or when would be a good idea to ask her.
I'm off tomorrow but that might seem a little too soon, and I'm working 10am-midnight on Friday so don't want to do anything on Thursday and can't do anything on Friday.
Saturday I'm going to spend some time with my mum for a few hours. Might go out afterwards.

I thought that when we do hang out we could go for a walk by the river by my house-I've never bothered to find out where it actually goes, and grab a pizza then suggest coming back here to watch a film, maybe

I was making her laugh a lot on Monday, got kino in and she suggested we go to London for the day seeing as I go so often*

Anyway, I'll be letting you know how it goes.

*That was before we'd started drinking.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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when I said "it's what I do best" i mean...I do it better than gaming a few at once.
 

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Thursday:
Some MSN chat which she initiated.
After some chatter, a little joking and stuff.
Me: "**** face, what are you doing on Saturday?"
Her:"Not sure, man.", "Jack**** I imagine"
Me: "Wanna hang out at some point? I finish at the gym at about 1"
Her: "Sure. Get some drink and play guitar hero again? :D. Make it Saturday night, though"
Me: "Aye, I guess so. I have some stuff to do between about 5 and 7 so say, 6:30-7ish"
Her: "Yeah, sure fire me a text and I'll come and meet you somewhere."
Me: "I'll have to. Working 10am-midnight tomorrow and swimming on my hour long break"
Her: "ok, sounds good. I have to go now. Ttys. xoxoxox"

She basically invited herself back to my room :up: . She's was here on Monday with some other friends.
 
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