"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Keeping a record so i can ask advice etc.

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I'm going to game one girl. It's what I do best.

Monday: We hung out with some friends, I got trashed and walked her home at the end of the night. Hugged her and went for a kiss but fell flat on my face. Don't think she realised what i was trying to do-she was pretty drunk.

Tuesday: She text me a bit to see what I was upto:
"Timmmmmmm What're you doin'? I'm BORED! xx"
"I'm at work. I'll give Paul your number because he's looking for new waitresses. I'll talk to you later because I'm pretty busy. Hope you're ok.x"
*few hours later*
"I'm good ta, had to get more credit. SO BORED still!xx"
"haha I'm still fucking hungover xx"
No more

Wednesday: I text her to see what she was doing tonight:
"Yo, what are you upto tonight?xx"
"I'm staying at my sister's in XXXXXX mate. xx"
"Fair enough :)xx"

She's staying at her sister's so I didn't want to bother her anymore. I'm not sure when I'll be free again or when would be a good idea to ask her.
I'm off tomorrow but that might seem a little too soon, and I'm working 10am-midnight on Friday so don't want to do anything on Thursday and can't do anything on Friday.
Saturday I'm going to spend some time with my mum for a few hours. Might go out afterwards.

I thought that when we do hang out we could go for a walk by the river by my house-I've never bothered to find out where it actually goes, and grab a pizza then suggest coming back here to watch a film, maybe

I was making her laugh a lot on Monday, got kino in and she suggested we go to London for the day seeing as I go so often*

Anyway, I'll be letting you know how it goes.

*That was before we'd started drinking.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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when I said "it's what I do best" i mean...I do it better than gaming a few at once.
 

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Thursday:
Some MSN chat which she initiated.
After some chatter, a little joking and stuff.
Me: "**** face, what are you doing on Saturday?"
Her:"Not sure, man.", "Jack**** I imagine"
Me: "Wanna hang out at some point? I finish at the gym at about 1"
Her: "Sure. Get some drink and play guitar hero again? :D. Make it Saturday night, though"
Me: "Aye, I guess so. I have some stuff to do between about 5 and 7 so say, 6:30-7ish"
Her: "Yeah, sure fire me a text and I'll come and meet you somewhere."
Me: "I'll have to. Working 10am-midnight tomorrow and swimming on my hour long break"
Her: "ok, sounds good. I have to go now. Ttys. xoxoxox"

She basically invited herself back to my room :up: . She's was here on Monday with some other friends.
 
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