"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Keeping a record so i can ask advice etc.

Moneytalks

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I'm going to game one girl. It's what I do best.

Monday: We hung out with some friends, I got trashed and walked her home at the end of the night. Hugged her and went for a kiss but fell flat on my face. Don't think she realised what i was trying to do-she was pretty drunk.

Tuesday: She text me a bit to see what I was upto:
"Timmmmmmm What're you doin'? I'm BORED! xx"
"I'm at work. I'll give Paul your number because he's looking for new waitresses. I'll talk to you later because I'm pretty busy. Hope you're ok.x"
*few hours later*
"I'm good ta, had to get more credit. SO BORED still!xx"
"haha I'm still fucking hungover xx"
No more

Wednesday: I text her to see what she was doing tonight:
"Yo, what are you upto tonight?xx"
"I'm staying at my sister's in XXXXXX mate. xx"
"Fair enough :)xx"

She's staying at her sister's so I didn't want to bother her anymore. I'm not sure when I'll be free again or when would be a good idea to ask her.
I'm off tomorrow but that might seem a little too soon, and I'm working 10am-midnight on Friday so don't want to do anything on Thursday and can't do anything on Friday.
Saturday I'm going to spend some time with my mum for a few hours. Might go out afterwards.

I thought that when we do hang out we could go for a walk by the river by my house-I've never bothered to find out where it actually goes, and grab a pizza then suggest coming back here to watch a film, maybe

I was making her laugh a lot on Monday, got kino in and she suggested we go to London for the day seeing as I go so often*

Anyway, I'll be letting you know how it goes.

*That was before we'd started drinking.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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when I said "it's what I do best" i mean...I do it better than gaming a few at once.
 

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Thursday:
Some MSN chat which she initiated.
After some chatter, a little joking and stuff.
Me: "**** face, what are you doing on Saturday?"
Her:"Not sure, man.", "Jack**** I imagine"
Me: "Wanna hang out at some point? I finish at the gym at about 1"
Her: "Sure. Get some drink and play guitar hero again? :D. Make it Saturday night, though"
Me: "Aye, I guess so. I have some stuff to do between about 5 and 7 so say, 6:30-7ish"
Her: "Yeah, sure fire me a text and I'll come and meet you somewhere."
Me: "I'll have to. Working 10am-midnight tomorrow and swimming on my hour long break"
Her: "ok, sounds good. I have to go now. Ttys. xoxoxox"

She basically invited herself back to my room :up: . She's was here on Monday with some other friends.
 
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