"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Keeping a potential "f**kbuddy" out of the friends zone

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Hey guys,

I'm asking this question in the high school forum b/c the girl in question is still in high school (junior), whereas I just finished my first year of college. Anyways...

A friend of mine introduced me to this girl. The first time I met her in person, we got a little drunk and made out. It seemed like I was doing everything right that night: kino, eye contact, ****y/funny, confident (the alcohol helped); she was all over me and admitted she was attracted to me. A week later we met again at another weekly party my friends have, but this time she doesn't drink and seems to have some more "social sense" to herself.

My question is: without trying to seem like I'm always trying to get her drunk and screw her, how can I keep her from putting me in her "friends box" and instead maintain my image as a potential summer-long opportunity for casual hook-ups?

I'm probably over-thinking this and just need to give it some time, but I wanted to hear what others think about my situation. Thanks.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is she illegal in your state?
 
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lol no, we're two years apart, and in WA ppl need to be no more than three if <18...
 
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