"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Keeping a potential "f**kbuddy" out of the friends zone

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Hey guys,

I'm asking this question in the high school forum b/c the girl in question is still in high school (junior), whereas I just finished my first year of college. Anyways...

A friend of mine introduced me to this girl. The first time I met her in person, we got a little drunk and made out. It seemed like I was doing everything right that night: kino, eye contact, ****y/funny, confident (the alcohol helped); she was all over me and admitted she was attracted to me. A week later we met again at another weekly party my friends have, but this time she doesn't drink and seems to have some more "social sense" to herself.

My question is: without trying to seem like I'm always trying to get her drunk and screw her, how can I keep her from putting me in her "friends box" and instead maintain my image as a potential summer-long opportunity for casual hook-ups?

I'm probably over-thinking this and just need to give it some time, but I wanted to hear what others think about my situation. Thanks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Shocker

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Is she illegal in your state?
 

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lol no, we're two years apart, and in WA ppl need to be no more than three if <18...
 
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