"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Keeping a potential "f**kbuddy" out of the friends zone

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Hey guys,

I'm asking this question in the high school forum b/c the girl in question is still in high school (junior), whereas I just finished my first year of college. Anyways...

A friend of mine introduced me to this girl. The first time I met her in person, we got a little drunk and made out. It seemed like I was doing everything right that night: kino, eye contact, ****y/funny, confident (the alcohol helped); she was all over me and admitted she was attracted to me. A week later we met again at another weekly party my friends have, but this time she doesn't drink and seems to have some more "social sense" to herself.

My question is: without trying to seem like I'm always trying to get her drunk and screw her, how can I keep her from putting me in her "friends box" and instead maintain my image as a potential summer-long opportunity for casual hook-ups?

I'm probably over-thinking this and just need to give it some time, but I wanted to hear what others think about my situation. Thanks.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is she illegal in your state?
 
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lol no, we're two years apart, and in WA ppl need to be no more than three if <18...
 
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