"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Keepin a friend, hickies, mom, and daughter

BadBoyCoolMan

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I recently moved to a new city and got a new job. One of my coworkers is an older lady (about 40). I am 24. This coworker and I became friends and she began telling me about her daughter who is in college. Daughter is 20. She gave her daughter's my myspace link and her daughter added me as a friend. We chatted for a while and then she came over to my apartment for help on college algebra. Last week I took her out to one of my female friends' birthday party. The chick is still a virgin and her looks are about an 8. What I like the most about her is her simplicity and personality.

After talking to her in person on these 2 occassions, I can tell that she ONLY SEES ME AS A FRIEND. She has a bf and I think likes him. My concern is messing **** up with her. I do want to xxxx her of course so how can I avoid messing up. I know that if I make a move, I am going to look like an idiot. Her mom did not tell me directly that she only sees me as a friend but I got the point. I want to keep her as a friend because of her personality and such but also because I can always have some good lookin chik to go to movies, club, parties, etc with. But at the same time, I do not want to be another one of her "homegirls." How can I balance this situation. Any advice would be appreciated. One more piece of info: her mom and I are real cool and her mom knows that I be ****ing around since she sees the hickies on my neck when I go to work.


Thank you.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Rashad

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Her mom would not have intro'd you guys had she not thought highly of you and trusted you.

Moving forward, you are in the friendzone. Sex buddies typically do NOT go to other girls' birthday parties together. Maybe make yourself scarce and hard to get if possible. Try to use kino if you do get together and in your mind you should be thinking "I may give her a chance. Let's see if she is worthy of my time." NOT how do i get your panties on my floor.
 

Moofahsa

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Don't do anything.

You'll screw up **** at your job and cause a ton of drama. If you want to use it as a job reference later just play the part of the "nice guy" friend
 

Mr. Wise

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Make her your pivot! HB8's are perfect for helping you get other chicks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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PlaysToWin

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Stop thinking with your c0ck.
 
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