"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Keepin a friend, hickies, mom, and daughter

BadBoyCoolMan

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I recently moved to a new city and got a new job. One of my coworkers is an older lady (about 40). I am 24. This coworker and I became friends and she began telling me about her daughter who is in college. Daughter is 20. She gave her daughter's my myspace link and her daughter added me as a friend. We chatted for a while and then she came over to my apartment for help on college algebra. Last week I took her out to one of my female friends' birthday party. The chick is still a virgin and her looks are about an 8. What I like the most about her is her simplicity and personality.

After talking to her in person on these 2 occassions, I can tell that she ONLY SEES ME AS A FRIEND. She has a bf and I think likes him. My concern is messing **** up with her. I do want to xxxx her of course so how can I avoid messing up. I know that if I make a move, I am going to look like an idiot. Her mom did not tell me directly that she only sees me as a friend but I got the point. I want to keep her as a friend because of her personality and such but also because I can always have some good lookin chik to go to movies, club, parties, etc with. But at the same time, I do not want to be another one of her "homegirls." How can I balance this situation. Any advice would be appreciated. One more piece of info: her mom and I are real cool and her mom knows that I be ****ing around since she sees the hickies on my neck when I go to work.


Thank you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Rashad

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Her mom would not have intro'd you guys had she not thought highly of you and trusted you.

Moving forward, you are in the friendzone. Sex buddies typically do NOT go to other girls' birthday parties together. Maybe make yourself scarce and hard to get if possible. Try to use kino if you do get together and in your mind you should be thinking "I may give her a chance. Let's see if she is worthy of my time." NOT how do i get your panties on my floor.
 

Moofahsa

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Don't do anything.

You'll screw up **** at your job and cause a ton of drama. If you want to use it as a job reference later just play the part of the "nice guy" friend
 

Mr. Wise

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Make her your pivot! HB8's are perfect for helping you get other chicks.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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PlaysToWin

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Stop thinking with your c0ck.
 
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