Keep it simple. Lets take all the power.

[ManhoodAboveBitches]

At some point the overthinking of what to focus on or do as a man. The over analyzing single relationships, or even a love interest that never gets anywhere.
Is and will always be useless.

The only thing that works is taking complete control. And that means you're no longer picking from the scale of 1-10 which ever number is in your league.
Because your perceived self value represents which number your gonna be with. Men don't get the girl they are too impressed or intimidated by, they get with the one they feel sort of comfortable with. And then that's that, 9-10's are just for the rich, you'll never have them alone, you must be very good looking with a sixpack or whatever excuse they can come up with. It's all nonsense.

Your own beliefs of self worth compared too the 9's and 10's are the only thing preventing you from getting with them. Women are just not attracted to that.
It's quite simple, they feel your energy. If your energy says you are a goddess that is far above me, they will just say "Alright i'm not interested, i can do better. Get lost loser". To be fair you can't even blame them, why should they go be with a man they don't feel attracted to or can look up to?

Now i'm not saying this is a switch you can just flick. It takes time and conditioning. But it's all inner-game. No over analyzing and reading countless books and forum posts.

Once you get it you give off the right energy without saying a word, women instantly pick this up from just looking at you.

It basically comes down to making a choice on to where to set the bar of what number on the scale you're worth of. 7? 8?

No. We're gonna remove the scale of 1-10 completely. You have to make a choice not to be below any women, not to be impressed by any level of beauty.
Not to give off any nervous energy even when faced with what you used to perceive as an unobtainable 10.

Just knowing about it that this works, won't work, sadly. You gotta make it your own so you give of this energy subconsciously in whatever state you are. Strong, tired, sick, weak, always, automatically without thinking about it.

It takes time and conditioning to get to that level, to be authentic. You're not gaming them, it's just you way more confident with any women regardless of level of attractiveness.

It's certainly the hardest thing i've ever done, but i'm happy i did. And would like to give back to anyone interested and explain how to achieve this.
Depending on how this is received i'll start giving out some specifics on how to get there.

 

[nismo-4]

I would just say win the powerball jackpot. Give a normie 5 million dollars, a penthouse in Miami, a successful business, a Lambo, RR Cullinan, and a poppin' IG with 100k followers, he'll be automatically there!

The other thing is, OP, you're talking about be confident from within. That's good, but it helps to have repeated success and something to actually be confident in i.e. do you make 6 figures, are you widely considered sexy, are you the "man with social connections"? Most guys, myself included, know we can't just look at pretty women like their a 4/10 to remove them from their pedestals or ignore women completely, then the Miami Dolphins Cheerleaders will be begging for us sexually a month later. It doesn't work that way.

I ignored 2 beautiful women (9.5/10 realtors) over the weekend. Guess what? They ignored me too. I didn't get laid, they didn't get treated to Salt Bae's. I received no experience either. They were bougie anyway: they had 3 series BMW'S, I had a Lexus, bigger than them.

Level up your looks, money, and status. Inner game energy will come naturally because you'll actually be in a position to do so.

 

[Manure Spherian]

I cannot pinpoint your thesis. Are you saying, “Bro, it doesn’t matter if you’re not a high-status man. As long as you perceive yourself as high status, you can attract the most beautiful women”?

If that’s your case, I disagree. Beautiful and highly hypergamous women know what is going on, and there’s no faking high status. Can you fake height, power, social dominance, familial lineage, academic and professional pedigrees, bank accounts, and yes, meanness? No, you can’t.

My female cousin is married to a film director. She is highly educated, talented, pretty, and her dad, my uncle, is rich. Do ya think if some ordinary guy or schlub spit game, he’d fool her? Lol.

And as Dr. Glover said, men batting out of their leagues makes them look desperate.

 

[PlatoPacks23]

And as Dr. Glover said, men batting out of their leagues makes them look desperate.

the ****?

 

[BillyPilgrim]

For the love of God, if we are "taking back all the power" why are we still going out our way for the P? That's insanity.

Collectively saying no to their bs sounds a lot better than collectively jumping through hoops for their approval, with the same end result.

If OP was a laborer in a factory he'd be looking to get ahead of his fellow workers, rather than wanting to unionize.

If we had a world on Humphrey Bogarts instead of a world of Justin Beibers, none of this self improvement stuff would matter.

OP, which one are you?

 

[Bingo-Player]

OP is saying women will value you based on how you value yourself

Yes there are looks & height based caveats but if you are an average looking guy at an average hight you have more than a fair shot at an attractive women because theres just so fvcking many of them

Women listen to everything you say and watch everything you do shes listening to be able to place you on her scale of ****ability if you rank yourself highly theres a very very strong possibility she will rank you highly too

I went out last night and pulled a 22 year old she wasn't sensational but most guys are going to take a crack at her

she was giving me attitude and sh1t testing me I handled them all expertly I put my hand on her A$$ and told her too behave or I wouldn't fvck her later

She was all over me like rash after that I'd passed her test and now she was horny grinding on my c0ck , she said lets go bathroom we went in there I fingered her a bit and then put her on her knees to suck my d1ck

later in the night she literally told me she had been testing me

 

[BaronOfHair]

At some point the overthinking of what to focus on or do as a man. The over analyzing single relationships, or even a love interest that never gets anywhere.
Is and will always be useless.

The only thing that works is taking complete control. And that means you're no longer picking from the scale of 1-10 which ever number is in your league.
Because your perceived self value represents which number your gonna be with. Men don't get the girl they are too impressed or intimidated by, they get with the one they feel sort of comfortable with. And then that's that, 9-10's are just for the rich, you'll never have them alone, you must be very good looking with a sixpack or whatever excuse they can come up with. It's all nonsense.

Your own beliefs of self worth compared too the 9's and 10's are the only thing preventing you from getting with them. Women are just not attracted to that.
It's quite simple, they feel your energy. If your energy says you are a goddess that is far above me, they will just say "Alright i'm not interested, i can do better. Get lost loser". To be fair you can't even blame them, why should they go be with a man they don't feel attracted to or can look up to?

Now i'm not saying this is a switch you can just flick. It takes time and conditioning. But it's all inner-game. No over analyzing and reading countless books and forum posts.

Once you get it you give off the right energy without saying a word, women instantly pick this up from just looking at you.

It basically comes down to making a choice on to where to set the bar of what number on the scale you're worth of. 7? 8?

No. We're gonna remove the scale of 1-10 completely. You have to make a choice not to be below any women, not to be impressed by any level of beauty.
Not to give off any nervous energy even when faced with what you used to perceive as an unobtainable 10.

Just knowing about it that this works, won't work, sadly. You gotta make it your own so you give of this energy subconsciously in whatever state you are. Strong, tired, sick, weak, always, automatically without thinking about it.

It takes time and conditioning to get to that level, to be authentic. You're not gaming them, it's just you way more confident with any women regardless of level of attractiveness.

It's certainly the hardest thing i've ever done, but i'm happy i did. And would like to give back to anyone interested and explain how to achieve this.
Depending on how this is received i'll start giving out some specifics on how to get there.

All true. Sadly, The Manosphere and it's fixation on seeing reality through an allegedly Red Pill Lens has conned many men today into believing that spending our every waking minute overthinking the ever living piss out of everything = some form of higher wisdom

Same way Intersectionalism hoodwinked and bamboozled many women into seeing "proof" of The White CIS Heteronormative Capitalistic Patriarchy lurking around every corner

None of that crap brings us any closer to selecting specific goals, then putting together a viable strategy for making our lives saner and richer than they were prior

 

[ManhoodAboveBitches]

I would just say win the powerball jackpot. Give a normie 5 million dollars, a penthouse in Miami, a successful business, a Lambo, RR Cullinan, and a poppin' IG with 100k followers, he'll be automatically there!

The other thing is, OP, you're talking about be confident from within. That's good, but it helps to have repeated success and something to actually be confident in i.e. do you make 6 figures, are you widely considered sexy, are you the "man with social connections"? Most guys, myself included, know we can't just look at pretty women like their a 4/10 to remove them from their pedestals or ignore women completely, then the Miami Dolphins Cheerleaders will be begging for us sexually a month later. It doesn't work that way.

I ignored 2 beautiful women (9.5/10 realtors) over the weekend. Guess what? They ignored me too. I didn't get laid, they didn't get treated to Salt Bae's. I received no experience either. They were bougie anyway: they had 3 series BMW'S, I had a Lexus, bigger than them.

Level up your looks, money, and status. Inner game energy will come naturally because you'll actually be in a position to do so.

This is the most perfect example of to explain it further. The working on "actually something to be confident about". While your also confirming the "being confident from within". The "being confident from within" part is harder, and i've found out there is way more to it, and also has a lot of nuances to it. Therefor because it's so complex to master and hard it's easily given up on. And apparently forgotten. Even though it's the key.

I'm not saying you can't have both, getting rich, being popular can make it easier. But if were keeping it simple. Let's say your on vacation and sitting at a tropical bar, next to a full on 10 looking her in the eye and talking to her. Your money, job and social media followers don't matter all that much. Unless you think verbally mentioning your money, cars and followers is a good idea. Leaving that out, her not knowing about all that. She's just gonna take a look at you, straight in the eye and feel your energy. How you respond to her, if you're authentically relaxed or uneasy.

I appreciate you using the number scale as it can explain a lot about how we perceive women. Forcefully looking at a pretty women as a 4/10 and ignore them will indeed not work. Neither will forcefully ignoring 9.5/10's. Women are so perceptive it's not even funny, they pick up on it very quickly, especially the 9/10's. Yet again, can't blame them.

Place yourself in the shoes of the 9/10 women, why settle for some akward insecure guy? That you can in no way feel attraction or excitement for? It feels to them like they're settling while they could do better, not very exciting is it?

The tension of and feelings that come with 9's and 10's have to be removed. Because it is mostly something we as men look up to. A ladder we have to climb in cars/wealth/popularity, or as @BillyPilgri said: going out of our way to get the P. No i don't agree with that at all mate, the opposite. The only thing i agree putting effort in is ourselves and taking the power back.

Stop climbing the damn ladder to wealth/status and trying to please or be on par with 9's/10's is basically what i'm saying. Be the 11. What are we a bunch of monkeys? Therefor the title: keep it simple. take all the power.

There is 0, yes zero. benefit of putting a 9 or 10 above yourself. Just because she is ****ing hot, doesn't mean she will give you a good feeling being with her. When you do give her too much power and indulge yourself in those enjoyable feelings they don't want you. And there's a reason for that, while you do that they don't get to look up to you as "their" man, "their" hero. I'm sorry that's just how the world works. Women need to have to look up to you as their man to be in love, and they can't do that while your being a *****.

Realizing this, it takes away some enjoyment from those 9's and 10's. Because you can't get with them while being in that state. But it's the key to giving you power over them. Realizing that there's no way you will get to enjoy a 9-10 while perceiving yourself as a 7-8. That would be sick right? You a 7 maybe 8? banging a full on 9-10. They won't let you tho, no matter what you do or how much money or status you acquire. So if you know they won't give you that, why the hell give them so much power? Why praise them while they won't give you what you want and bang some other dude that doesn't give a **** about how hot they think they are.

And that's it. It takes some time but you gotta be the 11. You'll enjoy those 9's and 10's less. But you'll be able to get them. The rule is that they are into you first and then you can allow some feelings/desire to match them a bit below that. Then you have stability.

If i meet an exceptionally hot women i don't think about getting with them. My first concern is: "am i in control?" and really. Or am i being too impressed by this 9-10. There's this one Bradley Cooper movie that explains, try to focus and find her flaw. Or whatever you have to just be relaxed around them, and talk to them or even flirt with them "normally".

Ignoring them therefor is a play, it's unnatural and not authentic. The inner game must always be there, working on it internally. But you basically don't do anything "special" or go out of your own way as BillyPilgri said. Just act natural/normal and social around those 9's and 10's, and if you want to connect then just do that and be yourself. You'd be surprised how many men act akward towards those 9's and 10's, and a guy just talking to them being funny and relaxed has 10 times the chances. Just be unimpressed but not rude or ignore them.

It's all about the energy you're giving off. It's all a inner process working on that.

 

[ManhoodAboveBitches]

You have to actively fight weak feelings towards women, also sexually. Spent time being picky while watching porn, only ever jo to the hottest of 10's, never settle. It conditions yourself to be less impressed by random 7's 8's. When you do feel weak never indulge but fight it, there is no reason to go with it. When you do you'll just get friend zoned and embarrassed anyway, keep your self respect. It's all inner-game and self work that gets you instinctively stronger with Any women. The outer game will take care of itself, you can just be your friendly social funny self but less impressed and way stronger than any other men. You'll automatically give off the right energy to get more respect with any women, regardless if it goes anywhere. If you're desperate for sex then there's no cure for that, fix yourself.

 

[inquisitor]

the ****?

NMMNG?

 

[Manure Spherian]

NMMNG?

Yes, the author of No More Mr. Nice Guy.