"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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keep going until you are rejected?

franchise21

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Is "keep going until she says 'no'" a good piece of advice....i have heard this from several guys who seems successful with women and was wondering your thoughts on the subject?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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eko

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u mean when ur tryin to get into her pants? yeah, sure... just don't go too fast with it. She'll reject you if you just like reach down her pants. Take it slowww and warm her up + tease her
 

DismantleRepair

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Yes, do it. Assume attraction and keep at it. The only thing that should stop you is a straight out rejection or an extremely obvious indicator of disinterest (body language usually tells this easily).

Don't let yourself be the one who finds out she was interested after you left and lost your chance!
 
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