"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Keep attracting very old women

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I'm aiming for 35-45 as i said in other topic, but all the interest is coming from these "grannies", is it because i give a beta provider vibe.

But i talked to an old friend who is 45 and who i dont see in a long time, he also uses online dating and get hit by these "grannies" from ages 52-57 as well... i thought i was the only one. Some years ago it was gay guys checking me out now old women with age to be grandmothers? Is the world crazy? I dont want "damaged goods" , these are the women that rejected me and others when they were hot and sexy

If you think im trolling check this out

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i never talked about this, because i think it was only happening to me. Is this normal? What gives them the idea they can go for me? Im not that old looking, also i dont dress like an old dude... i think i deserve better or do you guys think that's the best i can do ?

All this summed up is tearing my confidence (the little that i have) apart.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I think that you should let these women know thst you are sharing their FaceBook pages here. I am just sure that they will think it's a great idea.

More evidence that you can think of nothing but yourself.

And maybe you should use an actual online dating service instead of FaceBook.

And yes, you are trolling.
 
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anyway it was a legit question. posting their pics would be much worse i think. And no, this is not a question of thinking only about myself, its about having standards and seeking for you guys advice.
 
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Tictac said:
I think that you should let these women know thst you are sharing their FaceBook pages here. I am just sure that they will think it's a great idea.

More evidence that you can think of nothing but yourself.

And maybe you should use an actual online dating service instead of FaceBook.

And yes, you are trolling.
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no i'm dead serious
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i think this guy is going to stalk someone and then probably harm her if he isnt a troll
 
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Based on the way you feel about yourself you should be happy ANY woman is showing you interest.
 
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This needs to be taken off of our website immediately. Someone please contact a mod. The sharing of others personal Facebook pages is odd and doesn't belong here.

It's creepy man, if you aren't trolling this is scary. You should be seeking mental help, not posting on online forums. These are who become serial killers. Don't want it to be known that he was posting on SS.
 
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I don't post much on here because I don't feel I'm an experienced enough DJ to give good enough advice. But, I have read some of your threads. You really need to stop complaining on here. I try to fix my problems instead of whining on here about them. Stop feeling sorry for yourself, hit the gym, buy nice clothes, groom well, and just do whatever you have to. Just raise your SMV up already. Nothing is going to get better for you by complaining on a forum. Now go do something about it and report back!
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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