"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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keep asking to get my stuff from girl but she circumvents question everytime

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so i started seein an old plate again things were good for a while then started to go south about a month ago. We got into a huge fight sunday and after that its been said its pretty much over. She crazy anyway but still have feelings for her. Ive texted her several times to get some of my stuff back but she never says when and inturn sends me pictuers of places we were when we were having a good time. Im in my friends wedding this weekend and she is his boss so she will be there, ive invited her to rehersal dinner and she said take someone you can have care free fun with i mean that sincerely to. But then starts talking abt other stuff again. I just want my stuff back and be done but she wont give me response and circumvents everytime no matter how straight foward im being. I also got the whole i hope you can find peace in your life and what ever your looking for bull ****. I just want to be done . any ideas as of this point guys?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Stop being such a wimp about this. You're just going to let this c*nt keep your stuff? Come on man!

I would tell her she has 2 days to return my sh!t OR let me come over and take it. If I don't have my sh!t in 2 days there is going to be a problem. A BIG ONE.

Then if she still avoids you.. show up with the police. Or have a friend pretend to be a cop if its easier. :up:
 

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i mean im not trying to be a **** or end it on bad terms but its like she dsnt want to so she has reason to keep in contact
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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