"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Keep a mistake log!

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We all make mistakes. What better way to see what wrong you did than writing it down, then reviewing it every once in a while to make sure you never make that mistake again? This doesn't have to apply to just girls, it goes for everything in life too. You don't need to write down your mistakes, I keep my mistake log in a notepad file. Here are some example entries.


03/03/06 - I didn't study for that science test! I know I did fukkin terrible, I need to study next time.

03/04/06 - Telling a HB she needs to shave might not be the best neg.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Just out of curiosity, why shouldn't someone keep a log of successes? I mean wouldn't it be easier to review? Wouldn't it be more inspirational? Wouldn't it prompt you to continue doing what work and enhancing them rather than reliving things that didn't?

Just curious....
 
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Well, the whole purpose of the mistake log is to learn from it. Make sure you don't do the same things again next time. I'm sure a success log could be motivating, it's just that some people don't really learn all that they can from their mistakes, and the mistake log can help with that.
 
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I believe in doing both.

Mistakes and then writing how you can fix them.
Then success log.

Because if you just write mistakes, aren't you reinforcing them in your mind?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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