“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Keep a mistake log!

shiningshadow

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We all make mistakes. What better way to see what wrong you did than writing it down, then reviewing it every once in a while to make sure you never make that mistake again? This doesn't have to apply to just girls, it goes for everything in life too. You don't need to write down your mistakes, I keep my mistake log in a notepad file. Here are some example entries.


03/03/06 - I didn't study for that science test! I know I did fukkin terrible, I need to study next time.

03/04/06 - Telling a HB she needs to shave might not be the best neg.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Just out of curiosity, why shouldn't someone keep a log of successes? I mean wouldn't it be easier to review? Wouldn't it be more inspirational? Wouldn't it prompt you to continue doing what work and enhancing them rather than reliving things that didn't?

Just curious....
 

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Well, the whole purpose of the mistake log is to learn from it. Make sure you don't do the same things again next time. I'm sure a success log could be motivating, it's just that some people don't really learn all that they can from their mistakes, and the mistake log can help with that.
 

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I believe in doing both.

Mistakes and then writing how you can fix them.
Then success log.

Because if you just write mistakes, aren't you reinforcing them in your mind?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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