Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Keep a Journal for Everything, Not Just Game

parkthebus

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The purpose of this thread is to encourage others to keep a journal as I think it is a very useful tool. I would like others, if they already keep one, to report what they write about and how it helps them.

I write about anything I find significant in my thoughts or actions. Be it that I think I should read a certain book, to where I think I should be going in life and what paths I have open to me. Today for example, I wrote about a really good conversation with someone but tomorrow it could be about somewhere I went or did, be it positive or negative.

It's a great way to reflect on your day and is helpful for self improvement. It's like having an end of day review meeting with yourself as both the reviewee and reviewer. I find I also think about some things in a different way and shed some light on my own thought processes and discover thoughts that are probably only fleeting at times but stay with me once I've written them down and so I am much more self aware.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Glumix

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An entry in my todo list is to determine the precedence of all my writings. I write so much that I am lost in my own writings. But, well, I think it's a good thing.
 
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