KarmaSutra
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I'm not hungry most of the time. Plus I've been sickly. I'll try to eat each meal with a protein and fat combo each time.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
high fat diets do satiate you better but you must eat..KarmaSutra said:I'm not hungry most of the time. Plus I've been sickly. I'll try to eat each meal with a protein and fat combo each time.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I am so getting on your ass over this..KarmaSutra said:MEAL 1 - Eggs and bacon
meal 2 - jell-o cup INCOMPLETE MEAL
meal 3 - asparagus and mixed veggies INCOMPLETE MEAL
meal 4 - sausage and meat chili
meal 5 - spinach and butter INCOMPLETE MEAL
meal 6 - turkey slices
Feeling better :yes: I think this sh!t is finally getting out of my system.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Hey Karma, I'm probably off on this...but I remember reading somewhere that McD's and BK add a lot of fillers to their beef. That filler could have bad carbs or something, that I don't know. I've always stayed away from it.KarmaSutra said:meal -3 - 2 Big Macs, 2 Dbl Cheeseburgers (no bread)
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Thanks for the tip! :rockon:shaunuk said:Make sure you add a fat source to the protein shake, i.e. 3-4 eggs or 1-2 table spoons of olive oil
Keep up the hard work mate.
shaun
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.