KarmaSutra
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I'm not hungry most of the time. Plus I've been sickly. I'll try to eat each meal with a protein and fat combo each time.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
high fat diets do satiate you better but you must eat..KarmaSutra said:I'm not hungry most of the time. Plus I've been sickly. I'll try to eat each meal with a protein and fat combo each time.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I am so getting on your ass over this..KarmaSutra said:MEAL 1 - Eggs and bacon
meal 2 - jell-o cup INCOMPLETE MEAL
meal 3 - asparagus and mixed veggies INCOMPLETE MEAL
meal 4 - sausage and meat chili
meal 5 - spinach and butter INCOMPLETE MEAL
meal 6 - turkey slices
Feeling better :yes: I think this sh!t is finally getting out of my system.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Hey Karma, I'm probably off on this...but I remember reading somewhere that McD's and BK add a lot of fillers to their beef. That filler could have bad carbs or something, that I don't know. I've always stayed away from it.KarmaSutra said:meal -3 - 2 Big Macs, 2 Dbl Cheeseburgers (no bread)
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Thanks for the tip! :rockon:shaunuk said:Make sure you add a fat source to the protein shake, i.e. 3-4 eggs or 1-2 table spoons of olive oil
Keep up the hard work mate.
shaun
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.