"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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There is a transitional period where you do feel bad shifting to a 'fat burning' metabolism. It can be rough but tough it out as it pays dividends. The period may last from a few days to several weeks, which is another reason why I advise no carbs at all for 2 weeks at least, the transition is rougher but it takes less time. If you include post-workout carbs and carb days then the transition takes longer (and fat burning is compromised significantly). If you feel bad, eat some more. It's important to get sufficient calories during the phase and it's very unlikely you'll gain fat doing so.

By the way, tomorrow I want you to log your journal as such:

Meal 1/Breakfast - 4 eggs, 2 sausage patties
Meal 2 (snack) - celery w/ peanut butter
Meal 3 (lunch) - pork chop, spinach, salad
etc.

It's easier to troubleshoot diet that way.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Tuesday night:

Meal 4 - Pork chops, green beans w/ bacon and onions

meal 5 snack - sf jell-o cups and 1 sf vanilla pudding.

meal 6 prebed snack - turkey slices and celery w/ peanut butter.

Weighed my fat ass at 00:18 (drum roll . . . )

264 lbs.

I lost 6 pounds!

Fvck yes.

Today:

Meal 1. coffee (same as usual), scrambled eggs w/ cheese
 

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KarmaSutra said:
Meal 1 - 4 eggs with a steak.
perfect. :D

congrats on the weight loss bro! stick with it a while and you'll reap dividends. :)

after this week I think we should add some sort of structure to your weights routine.
 

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Man I'm fvcking psyched!

Great workout today.

I basically repeated yesterday because I really felt good afterwards.

Squats
1x 12 145
4x10-12 235

Leg Press
1x12 235
1x10 325
1x8 415
1x7 505

Decline bench press
4x10 100

Seated rows
3x10 120

Post workout meal:
1 can of whole tomatoes w/ tomato juice.

Dinner will be a pot roast with steak, cabbage, whole mushrooms,onions and celery.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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meal 5
sugar free lemon pudding
2 cans of V8 ( I'm a fiend for this stuff).

meal 6
sugar free jell-o and some more pot roast.


There is an assload of candy here to hand out to the kiddies and I don't have any want of it and it's right in front of my face. It feels good to be able to let go of this garbage.

My mental acumen is getting sharper and the clarity is too.
 

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how many carbs in your v8? I assume there is no added sugar.

(it's still processed food btw so I would limit it)
 

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Warboss Alex said:
how many carbs in your v8? I assume there is no added sugar.

(it's still processed food btw so I would limit it)
Can info says:
15g carbs per serving (1 can)
12 g sugar ( nowhere does it say anything regarding ADDED sugar)
3 g dietary fiber

On second thought I'll cut it to 1 can.
 

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yeah, I'm not a fan of juices in general, at least not on a daily basis. they're processed foods.

I'd cut it completely if I were you. two cans a day is most of your carb intake (going by 30-40g a day) and I'd prefer you got it from whole vegetables, nuts, a little whole fruit etc.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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KarmaSutra said:
Meal 2 - sliced tomato with turkey slices. ADD IN A LITTLE FAT HERE, SOME NUTS FOR EXAMPLE. TRY TO GET PROTEIN AND FAT IN EVERY MEAL, TURKEY IS LOWFAT SO IT DOESN'T WORK

Meal 3 lunch - broiled chicken thighs

meal 4 - 3 dbl cheeseburgers no ketchup or bread.
see caps for comments.. the rest looks good dude.
 

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Props to you Karma! It's nice to see people taking the initiative and working hard!
I can feel your pain about starting out heavy and wanting to get down. At the beginning of July I was around 280, now I'm down at 230. I'm 6'3" so I've been working on my cardio and lifting. For me I found after working out every day during the summer that I LOOKED FORWARD to running, biking and lifting. Even now, if I don't workout I feel like my day's not complete. Get that feeling and you'll be unstoppable!
Keep up the hard work and keep us updated :)
 

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Kidfabulous said:
For me I found after working out every day during the summer that I LOOKED FORWARD to running, biking and lifting. Even now, if I don't workout I feel like my day's not complete. Get that feeling and you'll be unstoppable!
Keep up the hard work and keep us updated :)
I'm getting to the point already where if I think about not going to workout I feel guilty as Jeffrey Dahmer.

I appreciate your kindness brother! My congratulations to you for dropping the lbs.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Warboss Alex said:
see caps for comments.. the rest looks good dude.
To supplement fat intake I bought a #10 can of Smuckers all natural peanut butter. Ingredients: Peanuts, salt.

I'll be dipping my spoon into the jar regularly.
 

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You're kickin ass and takin names in this weight loss battle karma.

Massive props to you brother.

Managing diabetes and losing the pounds at the same time is nothing short of an epic struggle I'm sure.
 

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You're kickin ass and takin names in this weight loss battle karma.

Massive props to you brother.

Managing diabetes and losing the pounds at the same time is nothing short of an epic struggle I'm sure.
From one warrior to another brother, I thank you. My Dad has serious heart troubles and is also Diabetic and I will not go out like that.
 

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1 can of tomatoes is not a meal .. add a protein and fat source to this and you're good to go.

edit: ps - you taking your fish oil?
 

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Yes sir I take my fish oil twice a day.

I didn't make it to the gym today due to family obligations.

Double time tomorrow.

Meal 1 - turkey slices and peanut butter

meal 2 - pot roast, coffee

Off to work in an hour then to the gym at 0500.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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