You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Amen brotherBut on the flip side, we all guys can learn from this and not wifie up a girl just because she touched your pee-pee once.
Vet her in all areas, (and she has a have good personality etc. ofc), and only go forward if she has a burning desire for you and see you as "the man". If not, well then she is for the streets.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Happens all the time. See thread below. Charissa Thompson dumped a rich sports agent husband and got a rich businessman husband who is younger than she is. She did this around age 40.
www.sosuave.net
Most women are known for monkey branching. Charissa Thompson claimed she had no one lined up when she filed for divorce on her husband. If she wasn't lying, she found a new man quickly.
The whole internet and media landscape will consist of bots just meant to cause conflict between people and rile up society against itself. You can have AI news reporters, AI articles, bot posters, and edited or fabricated videos and footage, and the quantity of disinformation and spam will be too high to deal with in accordance with Brandolini's law. We'll take this world straight to hell.
People will belive anything
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Covid plandemic proved that to be very true.
information overload, echo chambers and low attention span. ain't nobody got time to verify that.Covid plandemic proved that to be very true.
People can easily be manipulated to believe anything and most of the crowd are just cheep that follow without thinking.
Some people took time to verify... and others, just did tik tok videos about having fun wearing the mask, etc... Some people lost their jobs... or got put in jail because they didn't follow the covid dogma.
The ain't nobody got time part is by design
Most of the sheeple.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
That's why discernment is key. Got to both think for yourself and also follow your gut.
Bigger Better D1ck
You go girl
That or Bigger Better Deal. Frankly both are applicable. But I left my first marriage without ever exploring or considering exploring anything or anyone else. Then I didn’t date or consider dating until a full year after my divorce was final. I had 2 LTRs before meeting my second husband, and met him 7 years after my divorce. I remarried after dating him 2+ years. I broke off both the prior LTRs. And there were other options seeking me out constantly who I have shut down. It’s not all about sex as noted in the other thread. I’m the total package and can attract commitment from high value total package men.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I would be suspicious as well, especially if this is in the US.
I had to look up this word on Google since english is not my 1st language. I dont think it applies imho.
You have demonstrated a strong command of the English language in your forum posts on here over time.
Thanks, bro. My family worked really hard to send me to private schools when I was a kid. I also had a thing for video games (still do I guess) and there were no video games in Spanish back in the day; I remember that I used to play with a dictionary close by all the time.
In the United States, private schools are generally a better option for quality K-12 education than the public schools.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.