"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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karate=kung fu

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adn i have looked into ninjitsu stuff and all it really is is a bunch of martial arts combined, kinda like mma but in the old school they were assasins and knew some cool tricks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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No problem and good point Huffman that was so many years ago.

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Not to disrespect you Powerlifter, but in my opinion if take a class called "Karate/Kung Fu" it's the same as if you go to a restaurant called "Asia Wok Cafe". You get some strange mix that tastes ok, but you have no idea what you're actually eating, or where it came from.
 

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A good clean style to look into would be Hikuta. It's originally derived from anicient egypt and was used by Pharoah's bodyguards.
 
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