"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Karaoke

johnmich

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What do you guys think of karaoke. Its a big part of going out and partys.

Sure you can sound good or the majority of people sound crap but thats not the point. It shows others you are up for a laugh or they could jus think what a ****.

What are your thoughts guys ?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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man I love karaoke!!!

I don't have a good voice. My first time singing it was very bad, everyone was laughing at me. But eventually you'll get better at it with practice.

If you have plans for karaoke on a certain night. Try to listen to the songs that you plan to sing so that you would not be lost to the melody.

Another tip is to just let yourself go. Convey your emotions while singing. It would sound much better.
 

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Asians love "K" (that's what we call it), treat it like a party... 'cos we really don't know what to do nowdays (I'm talking about Chinese people in foreign countries).
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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FOL!!!

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hah I'm wit all of ya, karaoke is cool, just sing and laugh (not at the same time) :p...nice thing is, ladies (especially ones wo drank already) want to come with you and you can do kino very easily...just put one arm around her while singing, because tat's very common (at least here)
 

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Karaoke Rocks!!!

I love Karaoke!! It is one of the easiest ways to break the ice with a girl. You can also pull out of the of the cheessist, stoopid krap possible and people will love it. I always get mega applause for my versions of 80's r&b classics and I am a terrible singer. Its all about the attitude you bring to the stage. Talent is irrelevant.
 

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Aslo, what kinda songs you guys sing?

Most people sing classics that you can sing along to such as 'wonderwall'

I havnt done karaoke so want to give it a go but nervous.

I know, "weiner" but im gonna do it soon.
 
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