"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Karaoke

johnmich

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What do you guys think of karaoke. Its a big part of going out and partys.

Sure you can sound good or the majority of people sound crap but thats not the point. It shows others you are up for a laugh or they could jus think what a ****.

What are your thoughts guys ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mrswabe

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man I love karaoke!!!

I don't have a good voice. My first time singing it was very bad, everyone was laughing at me. But eventually you'll get better at it with practice.

If you have plans for karaoke on a certain night. Try to listen to the songs that you plan to sing so that you would not be lost to the melody.

Another tip is to just let yourself go. Convey your emotions while singing. It would sound much better.
 

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Asians love "K" (that's what we call it), treat it like a party... 'cos we really don't know what to do nowdays (I'm talking about Chinese people in foreign countries).
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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FOL!!!

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hah I'm wit all of ya, karaoke is cool, just sing and laugh (not at the same time) :p...nice thing is, ladies (especially ones wo drank already) want to come with you and you can do kino very easily...just put one arm around her while singing, because tat's very common (at least here)
 

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Karaoke Rocks!!!

I love Karaoke!! It is one of the easiest ways to break the ice with a girl. You can also pull out of the of the cheessist, stoopid krap possible and people will love it. I always get mega applause for my versions of 80's r&b classics and I am a terrible singer. Its all about the attitude you bring to the stage. Talent is irrelevant.
 

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Aslo, what kinda songs you guys sing?

Most people sing classics that you can sing along to such as 'wonderwall'

I havnt done karaoke so want to give it a go but nervous.

I know, "weiner" but im gonna do it soon.
 
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