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Karaoke-opinions?

dk1990S111

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A girl I was interested in 6 months ago moved out of state but is gunna be in town for a few days later this month. She wants to meet up the first night she’s back for karaoke. This isn’t the first time she’s wanted me to go up on stage. She’s actually saying I owe her lol I’m not really into going up on stage and doing stuff like that but with a few drinks I’d be fine.

So what’s your guys opinion on karaoke? It seems like it’d be along the lines of making a fool out of yourself for her entertainment. Not that I’m saying it’s not in good fun
 

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Billtx49

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If you can sing decently, get over the fear with the drinks if you have to. If you think you can’t sing decently, don’t do it.
 

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Keep a high energy level and include other people at the venue to sing along or dance with you. Karaoke is a blast. I've been a good number of women at karaoke spots.
 

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Tell her that if she wants it, she'll have to get you suitably drunk first. The drinks are on her.

Propose a duet of "baby it's cold outside".
Ha, I see what you did there.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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