"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Karaoke-opinions?

dk1990S111

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A girl I was interested in 6 months ago moved out of state but is gunna be in town for a few days later this month. She wants to meet up the first night she’s back for karaoke. This isn’t the first time she’s wanted me to go up on stage. She’s actually saying I owe her lol I’m not really into going up on stage and doing stuff like that but with a few drinks I’d be fine.

So what’s your guys opinion on karaoke? It seems like it’d be along the lines of making a fool out of yourself for her entertainment. Not that I’m saying it’s not in good fun
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Billtx49

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If you can sing decently, get over the fear with the drinks if you have to. If you think you can’t sing decently, don’t do it.
 

Masculinity

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Keep a high energy level and include other people at the venue to sing along or dance with you. Karaoke is a blast. I've been a good number of women at karaoke spots.
 

zekko

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Tell her that if she wants it, she'll have to get you suitably drunk first. The drinks are on her.

Propose a duet of "baby it's cold outside".
Ha, I see what you did there.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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