Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
ROFLMAO lol...I wasn't in the bathroom. I have a couple hilarious mp3s my teenagers did. They did YMCA and my daughter was laughing so hard at how her brother changed the words that she wet herself while singing. Then they did "Bad" and added some words and lots of squeals and what not. They make CDs all the time with the CD recorder and karaoke machine.Originally posted by Ice Cold
I'm here without you... sitting in the washroom... singing into my laptop
http://www.angelfire.com/musicals/centaurmyst/3DoorsDown.mp3
LMAO
BUT: Nice voice. Jokes (and limits of your mike aside) you have a decent voice. Take up guitar.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.