You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
ROFLMAO lol...I wasn't in the bathroom. I have a couple hilarious mp3s my teenagers did. They did YMCA and my daughter was laughing so hard at how her brother changed the words that she wet herself while singing. Then they did "Bad" and added some words and lots of squeals and what not. They make CDs all the time with the CD recorder and karaoke machine.Originally posted by Ice Cold
I'm here without you... sitting in the washroom... singing into my laptop
http://www.angelfire.com/musicals/centaurmyst/3DoorsDown.mp3
LMAO
BUT: Nice voice. Jokes (and limits of your mike aside) you have a decent voice. Take up guitar.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.