"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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kamikaze pick-up technique...

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So I know this 20 years old chick from salsa dancing.

We've danced a few times. I added her on fb a few months ago and saw she had a bf on and off...

One day I talked to her via fb chat and kind of asked her out but she made some jokes about me trying to seduce her... and that was it. I was not that interested so, no biggie.

Some nights ago I danced with her again and she was pretty sexy. So today I decided to utilise a new 'kamikaze' technique which will either get me a date or will make her block me on FB, lmao...

I just texted her:
me: "hey, whats up? just out of curiosity, how many likes do I have to give you so you get I wanna have sex with you?"


I think she may block me forever and think I am a creep but I dont mind, just wanted to 'shock' her a bit and see the results of a super ****y/direct approach.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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the kamikaze technique is killer. it gives you something to laugh about. most guys don't have the balls to do such a thing. it's the guys like us who understand that we truly have nothing to lose, that possess real character.
Amen pyros.
 
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MidnightCity said:
Maybe not the best way to go all in with a girl that goes to the same establishment as you but crazier things have happened. Just don't hold your breathe. Maybe start looking for a new dance studio unless you're utterly shameless like me
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lol
 
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It is not technique at all, it shows impatience and lack of skill in telling what you want, you were too direct and if i would be her i wold block your azz, you think you have balzz ... not really you would if you would ask face to face,txt such thing makes yu look weak,cowardish and thirsty...


Fail
 
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I agree with JohnyTheArrow, it's a desperate move and will be seen as such.

It sounds like you need a break or something man. Give chasing women a rest for a while and just go out and enjoy yourself.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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G_Govan said:
I agree with JohnyTheArrow, it's a desperate move and will be seen as such.

It sounds like you need a break or something man. Give chasing women a rest for a while and just go out and enjoy yourself.
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Ya, way too overt my man.

I also don't get when guys say "look what I did....but I really don't care. Just was messing around".

That's almost sounds like a backward rationalization after you realized you fvcked up big time...
 
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TheException said:
Ya, way too overt my man.

I also don't get when guys say "look what I did....but I really don't care. Just was messing around".

That's almost sounds like a backward rationalization after you realized you fvcked up big time...
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I am not rationalizating anything. I did it just because I felt like it. Besides, this is a chick that eventhough she has a bf on and off, I think she likes me.

And...you know what? I went to a salsa club some nights ago and there she was. I was expecting her to not even look at me but...at some moment she passed behind me and she caressed my neck and kept walking when I turned.

SOOOOO...I think my technique might have had a positive impact after all.

LMAO.
 
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