Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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kamikaze pick-up technique...

pyros

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So I know this 20 years old chick from salsa dancing.

We've danced a few times. I added her on fb a few months ago and saw she had a bf on and off...

One day I talked to her via fb chat and kind of asked her out but she made some jokes about me trying to seduce her... and that was it. I was not that interested so, no biggie.

Some nights ago I danced with her again and she was pretty sexy. So today I decided to utilise a new 'kamikaze' technique which will either get me a date or will make her block me on FB, lmao...

I just texted her:
me: "hey, whats up? just out of curiosity, how many likes do I have to give you so you get I wanna have sex with you?"


I think she may block me forever and think I am a creep but I dont mind, just wanted to 'shock' her a bit and see the results of a super ****y/direct approach.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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the kamikaze technique is killer. it gives you something to laugh about. most guys don't have the balls to do such a thing. it's the guys like us who understand that we truly have nothing to lose, that possess real character.
Amen pyros.
 

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MidnightCity said:
Maybe not the best way to go all in with a girl that goes to the same establishment as you but crazier things have happened. Just don't hold your breathe. Maybe start looking for a new dance studio unless you're utterly shameless like me


lol
 

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It is not technique at all, it shows impatience and lack of skill in telling what you want, you were too direct and if i would be her i wold block your azz, you think you have balzz ... not really you would if you would ask face to face,txt such thing makes yu look weak,cowardish and thirsty...


Fail
 

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I agree with JohnyTheArrow, it's a desperate move and will be seen as such.

It sounds like you need a break or something man. Give chasing women a rest for a while and just go out and enjoy yourself.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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G_Govan said:
I agree with JohnyTheArrow, it's a desperate move and will be seen as such.

It sounds like you need a break or something man. Give chasing women a rest for a while and just go out and enjoy yourself.
Ya, way too overt my man.

I also don't get when guys say "look what I did....but I really don't care. Just was messing around".

That's almost sounds like a backward rationalization after you realized you fvcked up big time...
 

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TheException said:
Ya, way too overt my man.

I also don't get when guys say "look what I did....but I really don't care. Just was messing around".

That's almost sounds like a backward rationalization after you realized you fvcked up big time...
I am not rationalizating anything. I did it just because I felt like it. Besides, this is a chick that eventhough she has a bf on and off, I think she likes me.

And...you know what? I went to a salsa club some nights ago and there she was. I was expecting her to not even look at me but...at some moment she passed behind me and she caressed my neck and kept walking when I turned.

SOOOOO...I think my technique might have had a positive impact after all.

LMAO.
 
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