"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i know now how the game is played
it s all to do with KAIZEN

kaizen ( BASED ON swingcat s CONCEPT )
U MUST FORCE YOURSELF TO DO 5 WALK UPS A DAY with sexual intent
if you don t you wont ever take action and you ll let your little internal voce of doom decide against you
' i am to tired to day ' ' i m not in the mood '
then after a month you do something more daring ( you leave your comfort zone
you decide to get 5 telephone numbers in the first week

its calleD KAIZEN ( please check it out on GOOGLE )

STYLE
said that when you are on a first date with a woman you musn t be yourself you must be your best self !! self is boring and trite routinelike !!
if you are your boring self she won t be attracted !!! so many boring guys around !!
show her VALUE HDV

then
listen to her and laugh at her jokes or acknowledge her personality she ll lijke that and ll feel appreciated and she ll will definitely WARM UP to you !!! ( i gotthat frrom JUGGLER)

REJECTION
well that happens to me i don t talke it negatively cuz i have DARED to approach the hottie and nobody else has !!
i laugh off the rejection and i feel real good about myspirit of enterprise ( no S F here )

hope the above will help

SELF ACCPTANCE
i believe it s important to accept yoursf as you are imperfect and knowing perfection is not of this world
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by boulepiquante
i know now how the game is played
it s all to do with KAIZEN

kaizen ( BASED ON swingcat s CONCEPT )
U MUST FORCE YOURSELF TO DO 5 WALK UPS A DAY with sexual intent
if you don t you wont ever take action and you ll let your little internal voce of doom decide against you
' i am to tired to day ' ' i m not in the mood '
then after a month you do something more daring ( you leave your comfort zone
you decide to get 5 telephone numbers in the first week

its calleD KAIZEN ( please check it out on GOOGLE )


cool post..short and to the point.

woah , thats soo weird..i was thinking the same thing today
about what you just wrote about kaizen. i was gonna
go to the mall and sarge for a couple hours, but i was hungry so
i decided to do it after i went to taco bell..well, as soon as
i got home i realized if i would've just ate it there i would've
been more likely to keep on my way to the mall...

i thought , oh i am hungry- i'll do it later.
or on days i am tired, -oh i'll do it tommorow.
I thought about all of my 'good' days where i make a ton of
progress are far and few but i have more days when i am
just lazy and 'ah, i'll do it later' mentality comes back into
play and i winde up typing a tweleve page post on 'indifference'.

I also realized that i made it a habit of lazyness-
There were times were i wouldn't feel like approaching
but when i did i immediatly felt better afterwards , even if
i didn't always get a number- the action of doing something
was enough to pull me 'out of my head' and my
entire day felt more productive.

Today i was even contemplating, you know what?
what IF on all the days i feel like utter crap,i
went out instead of putting it off til later.
if i made it a habit (just like i made 'doing it later' a habit)
everytime i feel like crap it'll be a trigger to go off in my
mind like 'oh, time to go sarge' instead of 'i'm tired'.


also , i noticed that the times i don't feel like doing it
are the best oppritunitys to make the most progress-
because if i can habitually go out and sarge on a 'bad day'
imagine the progress i'd make on a good day....

i am planning on sarging for at least four hours a day
for the next month...but i'll start that later...
'i'm kinda tired today' :D
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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AGAIN I REALLY WANT TO PUT THE EMPHASIS ON THE FACT THAT THOSE 5 WALK UPS A DAY are paramount

you need this concept of ' having to do it ' or nothing happens !!!

how many times i ve said to myself "today i m gonna talk to 3 women ' maybe I talked to 2 without rEsults and the following ididn t bother anymore

WE :woo:
 

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how STYLE became the greatst P U A in the world

STYLE talks about the same approach to picking up women
he calls it CHUNKING DOWN ( i e his interview by DE ANGELO )
for a time he woul approach 5 women everyday ( 4 or 5 days a week ) get a small convo going and then leave!!

see my earliest posts on KAIZEN
 

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Any progress is a good thing. No matter how big or small progess is always progress...If not it would be regressing (To return to a previous, usually worse or less developed state)


Crawling leads to Standing
Standing leads to Baby steps
Baby steps leads to Walking
Walking leads to Jogging
Jogging leads to Running


When you can no longer Run you will Fly....
 
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