"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i know now how the game is played
it s all to do with KAIZEN

kaizen ( BASED ON swingcat s CONCEPT )
U MUST FORCE YOURSELF TO DO 5 WALK UPS A DAY with sexual intent
if you don t you wont ever take action and you ll let your little internal voce of doom decide against you
' i am to tired to day ' ' i m not in the mood '
then after a month you do something more daring ( you leave your comfort zone
you decide to get 5 telephone numbers in the first week

its calleD KAIZEN ( please check it out on GOOGLE )

STYLE
said that when you are on a first date with a woman you musn t be yourself you must be your best self !! self is boring and trite routinelike !!
if you are your boring self she won t be attracted !!! so many boring guys around !!
show her VALUE HDV

then
listen to her and laugh at her jokes or acknowledge her personality she ll lijke that and ll feel appreciated and she ll will definitely WARM UP to you !!! ( i gotthat frrom JUGGLER)

REJECTION
well that happens to me i don t talke it negatively cuz i have DARED to approach the hottie and nobody else has !!
i laugh off the rejection and i feel real good about myspirit of enterprise ( no S F here )

hope the above will help

SELF ACCPTANCE
i believe it s important to accept yoursf as you are imperfect and knowing perfection is not of this world
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by boulepiquante
i know now how the game is played
it s all to do with KAIZEN

kaizen ( BASED ON swingcat s CONCEPT )
U MUST FORCE YOURSELF TO DO 5 WALK UPS A DAY with sexual intent
if you don t you wont ever take action and you ll let your little internal voce of doom decide against you
' i am to tired to day ' ' i m not in the mood '
then after a month you do something more daring ( you leave your comfort zone
you decide to get 5 telephone numbers in the first week

its calleD KAIZEN ( please check it out on GOOGLE )


cool post..short and to the point.

woah , thats soo weird..i was thinking the same thing today
about what you just wrote about kaizen. i was gonna
go to the mall and sarge for a couple hours, but i was hungry so
i decided to do it after i went to taco bell..well, as soon as
i got home i realized if i would've just ate it there i would've
been more likely to keep on my way to the mall...

i thought , oh i am hungry- i'll do it later.
or on days i am tired, -oh i'll do it tommorow.
I thought about all of my 'good' days where i make a ton of
progress are far and few but i have more days when i am
just lazy and 'ah, i'll do it later' mentality comes back into
play and i winde up typing a tweleve page post on 'indifference'.

I also realized that i made it a habit of lazyness-
There were times were i wouldn't feel like approaching
but when i did i immediatly felt better afterwards , even if
i didn't always get a number- the action of doing something
was enough to pull me 'out of my head' and my
entire day felt more productive.

Today i was even contemplating, you know what?
what IF on all the days i feel like utter crap,i
went out instead of putting it off til later.
if i made it a habit (just like i made 'doing it later' a habit)
everytime i feel like crap it'll be a trigger to go off in my
mind like 'oh, time to go sarge' instead of 'i'm tired'.


also , i noticed that the times i don't feel like doing it
are the best oppritunitys to make the most progress-
because if i can habitually go out and sarge on a 'bad day'
imagine the progress i'd make on a good day....

i am planning on sarging for at least four hours a day
for the next month...but i'll start that later...
'i'm kinda tired today' :D
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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AGAIN I REALLY WANT TO PUT THE EMPHASIS ON THE FACT THAT THOSE 5 WALK UPS A DAY are paramount

you need this concept of ' having to do it ' or nothing happens !!!

how many times i ve said to myself "today i m gonna talk to 3 women ' maybe I talked to 2 without rEsults and the following ididn t bother anymore

WE :woo:
 

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how STYLE became the greatst P U A in the world

STYLE talks about the same approach to picking up women
he calls it CHUNKING DOWN ( i e his interview by DE ANGELO )
for a time he woul approach 5 women everyday ( 4 or 5 days a week ) get a small convo going and then leave!!

see my earliest posts on KAIZEN
 

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Any progress is a good thing. No matter how big or small progess is always progress...If not it would be regressing (To return to a previous, usually worse or less developed state)


Crawling leads to Standing
Standing leads to Baby steps
Baby steps leads to Walking
Walking leads to Jogging
Jogging leads to Running


When you can no longer Run you will Fly....
 
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