"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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K.i.s.s.

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Don Juan
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Women don't care about sports, philosophy, and social issues. That is unless they have a motive. These motives may be the roots of their feministic attitudes:

They were abused sexually as children.
Can't get who they want to get
Or were around alot of boys as kids, and were only accepted by being a tomboy.

However, even little girls know when they are "pretty", and are developing a ***** shield at 10 years old!

So just a reminder, all of your thoughts and ponderings will get you nowhere with women. They may get you a girlfriend that is ready to get married, but in the dating game, it's all about K.I.S.S.

Keep it simple stupid.

Dont cloud up women with needs for explanations. Take what they do as something they do, and don't try to understand why. This is because the answer you will get will be 80-90% bull! Why did she flake on a date? Doesn't matter! Do something else in the meantime!

Putting up fronts to women only lasts for a little while, as they will find a way to tear it down. The truth is, they want you to be sad, happy, angry, and all of these things! So it is OK to feel these things, but be level headed while feeling them. Saying "I'm a robot, look at my cold shoulder" will show a girl alot of things. Most importantly it will show you are BORING, and she'll be on some other guy like white on rice. But if she is being a *****, get mad and put her in her place! Just remember you are above your emotions and don't ram your head or her head through a window! Things like this build depth to a relationship.

Enjoy the little things about life that everybody else with a scheduler, a full-time job, a pet, and a car payment forget about. The color green on a leaf. The temperature, or the beauty of a pond. The majesty of skyscrapers and taking it all in sitting on the street with a newspaper and coffee. Learning about the little things will make you a joy to be around. Everyone is looking for something monumental, but paying attention to simple things will give better than average substance.

So remember, as you learn techniques, the nature of women, how to get a six pack, or become important, remember to K.I.S.S.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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