"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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K.i.s.s.

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Women don't care about sports, philosophy, and social issues. That is unless they have a motive. These motives may be the roots of their feministic attitudes:

They were abused sexually as children.
Can't get who they want to get
Or were around alot of boys as kids, and were only accepted by being a tomboy.

However, even little girls know when they are "pretty", and are developing a ***** shield at 10 years old!

So just a reminder, all of your thoughts and ponderings will get you nowhere with women. They may get you a girlfriend that is ready to get married, but in the dating game, it's all about K.I.S.S.

Keep it simple stupid.

Dont cloud up women with needs for explanations. Take what they do as something they do, and don't try to understand why. This is because the answer you will get will be 80-90% bull! Why did she flake on a date? Doesn't matter! Do something else in the meantime!

Putting up fronts to women only lasts for a little while, as they will find a way to tear it down. The truth is, they want you to be sad, happy, angry, and all of these things! So it is OK to feel these things, but be level headed while feeling them. Saying "I'm a robot, look at my cold shoulder" will show a girl alot of things. Most importantly it will show you are BORING, and she'll be on some other guy like white on rice. But if she is being a *****, get mad and put her in her place! Just remember you are above your emotions and don't ram your head or her head through a window! Things like this build depth to a relationship.

Enjoy the little things about life that everybody else with a scheduler, a full-time job, a pet, and a car payment forget about. The color green on a leaf. The temperature, or the beauty of a pond. The majesty of skyscrapers and taking it all in sitting on the street with a newspaper and coffee. Learning about the little things will make you a joy to be around. Everyone is looking for something monumental, but paying attention to simple things will give better than average substance.

So remember, as you learn techniques, the nature of women, how to get a six pack, or become important, remember to K.I.S.S.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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