"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Justin Bieber - What's His Appeal?

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He's short, he's skinny, he's 16 but looks 10... and he has millions of adoring teenage fans.

IMO Justin Bieber is the epitome of the power of preselection and the young-girl-herd-mentality at play. Girls see hordes of other girls going crazy about him, they rationalize that this guy must have SOMETHING going for him, ergo they feel attraction.

And this effect snowballs and suddenly some pipsqueak from small town Ontario is the biggest superstar on the planet.

So what propelled this kid to stardom in the first place? And why do girls love this guy so much vs. other two-bit teenage acts?

 
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I don't know, but I want to know his secret. Maybe it's his voice. I used to have a voice like Justin Bieber. Well, then I turned 5.
 
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He was molded after the current societal fads in order to purely attract the younger 8-16 audience. He is basically built for that. The very concept of Bieber is meant for it as well. It's not one particular trait, it's the machine behind him that made him so attractive.
 
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Not sure why HE is so popular,but it's common for girls that age to want a BF,but not have to deal with a real one. SO some little boy will be their "BF"-why all the teen acts work
 
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He's popular because Usher is his best friend, manager, etc. and by transitive powers he now has Usher's resources, limelight, etc. and basically a large part of the hip-hop community behind him.

In a nutshell, Usher.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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