"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Justin Bieber - What's His Appeal?

S

spinaroonie

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jan 12, 2009
Messages
318
Reaction score
27
He's short, he's skinny, he's 16 but looks 10... and he has millions of adoring teenage fans.

IMO Justin Bieber is the epitome of the power of preselection and the young-girl-herd-mentality at play. Girls see hordes of other girls going crazy about him, they rationalize that this guy must have SOMETHING going for him, ergo they feel attraction.

And this effect snowballs and suddenly some pipsqueak from small town Ontario is the biggest superstar on the planet.

So what propelled this kid to stardom in the first place? And why do girls love this guy so much vs. other two-bit teenage acts?

 
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

W

War Against Betaism

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 19, 2007
Messages
1,600
Reaction score
28
Location
California
I don't know, but I want to know his secret. Maybe it's his voice. I used to have a voice like Justin Bieber. Well, then I turned 5.
 
S

Shivastorm_88

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 10, 2007
Messages
408
Reaction score
16
He was molded after the current societal fads in order to purely attract the younger 8-16 audience. He is basically built for that. The very concept of Bieber is meant for it as well. It's not one particular trait, it's the machine behind him that made him so attractive.
 
S

sodbuster

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 11, 2008
Messages
2,560
Reaction score
373
Age
67
Location
South Dakota
Not sure why HE is so popular,but it's common for girls that age to want a BF,but not have to deal with a real one. SO some little boy will be their "BF"-why all the teen acts work
 
Y

Young Juan

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 4, 2001
Messages
418
Reaction score
6
Age
42
Location
Ahwatukee, AZ
He's popular because Usher is his best friend, manager, etc. and by transitive powers he now has Usher's resources, limelight, etc. and basically a large part of the hip-hop community behind him.

In a nutshell, Usher.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top