"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Just writing it down

BananaSmile

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Today went to the beach with some friends.
skip to the part where im waiting an hour for a bus home.

i saw this girl through the fence to a train station
im like hey, you like to have a good time (i was doing fun pickups thing, Idk why through a fence) she was like hb8?

then shes screams at me "WHAT DID U SAY"?

im like (****) "dont worry bout it". THen she fking chases me and tells me all this **** like wtf im trying to do. Her fat friend comes and ****. THey keep making racist comments (im asian)

(im laughing to myself, im thinking daym wogs- (think they were but u know wogs are always jumpy, fighting is what gives you status as a wog) wogs= eastern europeans

So then one of their guys comes over (im like man? wth?) he's silent walks back

then they chuck a traffic cone, bottle and a bin at me. (the fking cone hit me in the head but others missed).

im not even replying
my friends are like lets fk em up
then asian ppl next to us got involved

and this is my second attemp at picking up a chik :D (my friends are like dont do this **** anymore, but **** that rite? i didnt know she was racist)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Plec07

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I'm utterly confused and speachless at how she reacted.

Your right about not letting it stop you, but maybe you shouldn't start with a line that is typically said by a sterotypical creepy possible-rapist in movies/tv ect.... come to think of it, also by hookers.

From the sounds of it she and her friends were what we call in the uk a "chav" (council housed and violent). They're typically agressive wasters who do nothing but make trouble for themselves and anyone who so much as looks at them.

This was definately bad luck what happened, and not the normal reaction for... well anyone of the human race not using shark testosterone and a form of steroid.

Forget about it and keep going mate, this wasn't your fault. :up:
 

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Haha grenade and grenade launcher :D
How far away did she throw the traffic cone from?? cause those ****s are heavy
 

BananaSmile

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I was standing 1m from a 2m tall bus station and her far friend (girl) trew it over and hit me.

today i felt dizzy and sleepy through some parts of the day (but i slept 6 hours a day for the past 2 days and beach was tiering)
 
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