"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Kourt

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Why cant we say anything politically biased. I mean there is a section titled ANYTHING ELSE for a reason. I was jw.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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it creates rivalries, makes people lose respect from other members, and most importantly doesn't serve a purpose.

Its for the better they get closed. There is 0 point in discussing polotics, so why do it?
 

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The precedent is that no one thread can stay level-headed for long: all of them develop in to flame wars if given long enough (which is usually in the 70-80 seconds range).

Nowadays we just kill them at the root. They WILL erupt into flame wars, and instead of generating extra "work" for the moderators and hurting people's feelings by pruning irrelevant or otherwise needless posts, we close them before they become problematic.

That about do it, ace?
 
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And lets not forget that sosuave is an organization where the owner makes profits out of. What would happen if some members would leave because of other`s comments? Less hits.

By no mean am I saying the owner is wrong because having such a huge user database, I would do the same.
 

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ur right I didnt even think of that mrbond, and yeah I suppose you'd get flame wars, but I think anyone who leaves sosuave cuz they got their feelings hurt would be some afc we dont want around anyway no? Anyway I guess I see reason.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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