"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why cant we say anything politically biased. I mean there is a section titled ANYTHING ELSE for a reason. I was jw.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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it creates rivalries, makes people lose respect from other members, and most importantly doesn't serve a purpose.

Its for the better they get closed. There is 0 point in discussing polotics, so why do it?
 

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The precedent is that no one thread can stay level-headed for long: all of them develop in to flame wars if given long enough (which is usually in the 70-80 seconds range).

Nowadays we just kill them at the root. They WILL erupt into flame wars, and instead of generating extra "work" for the moderators and hurting people's feelings by pruning irrelevant or otherwise needless posts, we close them before they become problematic.

That about do it, ace?
 
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And lets not forget that sosuave is an organization where the owner makes profits out of. What would happen if some members would leave because of other`s comments? Less hits.

By no mean am I saying the owner is wrong because having such a huge user database, I would do the same.
 

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ur right I didnt even think of that mrbond, and yeah I suppose you'd get flame wars, but I think anyone who leaves sosuave cuz they got their feelings hurt would be some afc we dont want around anyway no? Anyway I guess I see reason.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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