Just went on my first date in over a year

[Solomon]

OP, it happens, man don't beat yourself up for it. I'm taking a break by choice as well after the last women I hung out with a couple times got knocked out her exboyfriend whoms he sued (to get her motorcycle back) I was like yup time to take a break

 

[Captain Redbeard]

These dates devoid of any real connection are increasingly common due to swipe apps. Had one earlier this year that was brutally dull, similar to what OP described.

This is also why I don't do anything special for first dates off an app. Just do whatever I would do normally and have her tag along.

I'm currently on a break from the apps anyway and focusing on meeting in person where screening for interest and energy is much easier.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

These dates devoid of any real connection are increasingly common due to swipe apps. Had one earlier this year that was brutally dull, similar to what OP described.

This is also why I don't do anything special for first dates off an app. Just do whatever I would do normally and have her tag along.

I'm currently on a break from the apps anyway and focusing on meeting in person where screening for interest and energy is much easier.

Yeah I am not so sure I am going to go to bars anymore. It can be a waste of money. Going on a walk or hike or just doing something outside for free etc seems better. In fact the last time I went on a hike for my first date we got along so well that we ended up going to get drinks after then banged later that night.