"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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just watched vinny from jersey shore break every dj rule! haha

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"your so beautiful"
"im in love with you"
"im gonna go tell everyone i found my wife"

she goes "aaaawww"

at least he asked her number like a man

called her

"hey I need a sympathy date, will you do me that favor"
"ok i'll call you later"

of course she calls back and cancels ahahah dur

oh jeeze now hes calling her again begging.... holy sh!t, "i bought you really nice flowers"

hes so excited right now. guarantee he gets stood up
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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pauly d's opening line was something close to "vinnys got a girl hes in love with hes invited an we're goin out to dinner, and so i decided to invite the girl Im in love with, and I figured you could come to".


in this situation pun intended pauly d was completely alpha/dj and vinny was the definition of beta/afc. it was a classic case of what to do and what NOT to do.
 
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