"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Just wanna share with you my perception now that I have no libido

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So I got from a friend a jar of ATD and decided to give it a try to see if it helps to dry me out in the short term and boost my test in the long term, I read all the side effects obviously thats why I tried the minimum amount suggested and just for few days.

Anyway among the sides just like all the AIs there is the drop of libido, in the case of ATD it happens not only cause of the lower estrogens but also because of ATD binding to androgen receptors in the brain thus not allowing test to bind.

Well I basically have erections every morning when I get up even more than usual yet I have no desire to have sex, flirt or even checking out girls in yoga pants at the gym.

Once the sexual desire is gone I virtually feel no need to interact with girls anymore, I have girls writing me on tinder and I find them BORING, not even worth reading their message if its too long, I simply read a few words just to see what is about, dont even bother to type to reply.

I dealt with them in the last few days the same way I usually deal with children, be nice to avoid making them cry but keep it short in the hope they will go somewhere else to fish for attention.

Thats probably how the average woman feels near the average man, no desire at all and it explains why they behave the way they do.

Quite a strange situation but I suggest all of you to try just for few days, especially because sex drive can be a major force to act even in fields not strictly related to sex.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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So I got from a friend a jar of ATD and decided to give it a try to see if it helps to dry me out in the short term and boost my test in the long term, I read all the side effects obviously thats why I tried the minimum amount suggested and just for few days.

Anyway among the sides just like all the AIs there is the drop of libido, in the case of ATD it happens not only cause of the lower estrogens but also because of ATD binding to androgen receptors in the brain thus not allowing test to bind.

Well I basically have erections every morning when I get up even more than usual yet I have no desire to have sex, flirt or even checking out girls in yoga pants at the gym.

Once the sexual desire is gone I virtually feel no need to interact with girls anymore, I have girls writing me on tinder and I find them BORING, not even worth reading their message if its too long, I simply read a few words just to see what is about, dont even bother to type to reply.

I dealt with them in the last few days the same way I usually deal with children, be nice to avoid making them cry but keep it short in the hope they will go somewhere else to fish for attention.

Thats probably how the average woman feels near the average man, no desire at all and it explains why they behave the way they do.

Quite a strange situation but I suggest all of you to try just for few days, especially because sex drive can be a major force to act even in fields not strictly related to sex.
I know how you feel. I am in same boat. I force myself to interact with women. Just trying to do it. Its fun sometimes. Other times meh. Just press on brother
 

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Katt Williams: "Before I take another ho home from the club, I am going to go into the restroom and jack off in the urinal first....and then see if it taking her home still seems like a good idea."
 

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Women are generally boring to talk to, super predictable, they got some nerve talking about personality
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So I got from a friend a jar of ATD and decided to give it a try to see if it helps to dry me out in the short term and boost my test in the long term, I read all the side effects obviously thats why I tried the minimum amount suggested and just for few days.

Anyway among the sides just like all the AIs there is the drop of libido, in the case of ATD it happens not only cause of the lower estrogens but also because of ATD binding to androgen receptors in the brain thus not allowing test to bind.

Well I basically have erections every morning when I get up even more than usual yet I have no desire to have sex, flirt or even checking out girls in yoga pants at the gym.

Once the sexual desire is gone I virtually feel no need to interact with girls anymore, I have girls writing me on tinder and I find them BORING, not even worth reading their message if its too long, I simply read a few words just to see what is about, dont even bother to type to reply.

I dealt with them in the last few days the same way I usually deal with children, be nice to avoid making them cry but keep it short in the hope they will go somewhere else to fish for attention.

Thats probably how the average woman feels near the average man, no desire at all and it explains why they behave the way they do.

Quite a strange situation but I suggest all of you to try just for few days, especially because sex drive can be a major force to act even in fields not strictly related to sex.
Good post. Honestly, I wish I could turn off my sex drive without screwing up my testosterone. I believe most, if not all, men would be happier with 0 libido.
 

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Good post. Honestly, I wish I could turn off my sex drive without screwing up my testosterone. I believe most, if not all, men would be happier with 0 libido.
My testosterone now is as high if not more then when I started, the low libido is due to low estrogens and adrogens receptors in the brain locked.

Strenght is good, so is endurance and rage when pissed off ;)
 

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Fuk this. My strength comes from my sexual fortitude and I will embrace that fully. Would never do anything to purposefully drop my libido.

Plus mind over matter anyway.
 

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Update, last small dose was on sunday, today getting libido back and made new bench press record at the gym.
 
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