"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just wanna share with you my perception now that I have no libido

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So I got from a friend a jar of ATD and decided to give it a try to see if it helps to dry me out in the short term and boost my test in the long term, I read all the side effects obviously thats why I tried the minimum amount suggested and just for few days.

Anyway among the sides just like all the AIs there is the drop of libido, in the case of ATD it happens not only cause of the lower estrogens but also because of ATD binding to androgen receptors in the brain thus not allowing test to bind.

Well I basically have erections every morning when I get up even more than usual yet I have no desire to have sex, flirt or even checking out girls in yoga pants at the gym.

Once the sexual desire is gone I virtually feel no need to interact with girls anymore, I have girls writing me on tinder and I find them BORING, not even worth reading their message if its too long, I simply read a few words just to see what is about, dont even bother to type to reply.

I dealt with them in the last few days the same way I usually deal with children, be nice to avoid making them cry but keep it short in the hope they will go somewhere else to fish for attention.

Thats probably how the average woman feels near the average man, no desire at all and it explains why they behave the way they do.

Quite a strange situation but I suggest all of you to try just for few days, especially because sex drive can be a major force to act even in fields not strictly related to sex.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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So I got from a friend a jar of ATD and decided to give it a try to see if it helps to dry me out in the short term and boost my test in the long term, I read all the side effects obviously thats why I tried the minimum amount suggested and just for few days.

Anyway among the sides just like all the AIs there is the drop of libido, in the case of ATD it happens not only cause of the lower estrogens but also because of ATD binding to androgen receptors in the brain thus not allowing test to bind.

Well I basically have erections every morning when I get up even more than usual yet I have no desire to have sex, flirt or even checking out girls in yoga pants at the gym.

Once the sexual desire is gone I virtually feel no need to interact with girls anymore, I have girls writing me on tinder and I find them BORING, not even worth reading their message if its too long, I simply read a few words just to see what is about, dont even bother to type to reply.

I dealt with them in the last few days the same way I usually deal with children, be nice to avoid making them cry but keep it short in the hope they will go somewhere else to fish for attention.

Thats probably how the average woman feels near the average man, no desire at all and it explains why they behave the way they do.

Quite a strange situation but I suggest all of you to try just for few days, especially because sex drive can be a major force to act even in fields not strictly related to sex.
I know how you feel. I am in same boat. I force myself to interact with women. Just trying to do it. Its fun sometimes. Other times meh. Just press on brother
 

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Katt Williams: "Before I take another ho home from the club, I am going to go into the restroom and jack off in the urinal first....and then see if it taking her home still seems like a good idea."
 

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Women are generally boring to talk to, super predictable, they got some nerve talking about personality
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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So I got from a friend a jar of ATD and decided to give it a try to see if it helps to dry me out in the short term and boost my test in the long term, I read all the side effects obviously thats why I tried the minimum amount suggested and just for few days.

Anyway among the sides just like all the AIs there is the drop of libido, in the case of ATD it happens not only cause of the lower estrogens but also because of ATD binding to androgen receptors in the brain thus not allowing test to bind.

Well I basically have erections every morning when I get up even more than usual yet I have no desire to have sex, flirt or even checking out girls in yoga pants at the gym.

Once the sexual desire is gone I virtually feel no need to interact with girls anymore, I have girls writing me on tinder and I find them BORING, not even worth reading their message if its too long, I simply read a few words just to see what is about, dont even bother to type to reply.

I dealt with them in the last few days the same way I usually deal with children, be nice to avoid making them cry but keep it short in the hope they will go somewhere else to fish for attention.

Thats probably how the average woman feels near the average man, no desire at all and it explains why they behave the way they do.

Quite a strange situation but I suggest all of you to try just for few days, especially because sex drive can be a major force to act even in fields not strictly related to sex.
Good post. Honestly, I wish I could turn off my sex drive without screwing up my testosterone. I believe most, if not all, men would be happier with 0 libido.
 

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Good post. Honestly, I wish I could turn off my sex drive without screwing up my testosterone. I believe most, if not all, men would be happier with 0 libido.
My testosterone now is as high if not more then when I started, the low libido is due to low estrogens and adrogens receptors in the brain locked.

Strenght is good, so is endurance and rage when pissed off ;)
 

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Fuk this. My strength comes from my sexual fortitude and I will embrace that fully. Would never do anything to purposefully drop my libido.

Plus mind over matter anyway.
 

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Update, last small dose was on sunday, today getting libido back and made new bench press record at the gym.
 
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