Just two questions about Number Closing ....

[KnightRyder]

Just two questions about Number Closing ....

1) Do you always have to do it ??? ( even if you met her for like 4 - 5 minutes )


2) What is the easiest way to ask for her number ??

 

[KnightRyder]

that was a good post gb ...

first guage her attraction level....if its high go 4 the number else call it off...is that what you mean ?

basically , I think once you are able to guage a good interst level..saying the number close anything you say wll be fine.

 

[JasonR]

id say the sooner you feel as though you can close, you should close.

sometimes i close after 2 mins, other times after 10, it all depends on the situation and what kind of vibe you're getting.


When asking for the number stick to this religiously and you'll be one successful DJ.

"let me give you a call, what's your number?"

simple as that.

 

[-HPNOTIQ-]

F*CK MAN.

Pillar of DJing...GET THE F*CKING NUMBER.

Why ask yourself if it was 5 minutes...10 minutes...20 minutes...30 minutes of time before you get the number???...the longer you snooze and think you'll see the girl later on that night in the club..another fella like myself is taking her home..and you're sh*t outta luck jerking off that night.

Even if you met her for 5 minutes at the bar and feel a good rapport...make it a simple:

"Damn girl..I'm having a GREAT time here...but the fellas plan to take off in like 10 minutes..key in your number in my cell phone (whips out trusty cell) and I'll call you in a bit and we'll meet you and your girls later tonight."

In this senerio...even if you don't end up leaving the club..you got her number anyway...and if you do end up leaving, score!!! You got one number for the after hours at your pad and have freed yourself up to get other fem's digits.

Remember, NEVER ASK for the number....demand it subtly.

AND GET THE F*CKING DIGITS....that's what its ALL ABOUT.

 

[blue17]

agreed...if you can get the number, sooner the better.

I learned that lesson the hard way. met this girl on the bus, she had good IL, i found out she would be attending a school function the next day (i had by chance planned on attending it as well). I thought...."no need to number close, i'll see her tomorrow". I think i was just really making an excuse not to get her number, actually. But anyways, when I saw her there the next day her friend was w/ her and it fvcked the whole thing up. I'm pretty sure I could've got the number the first time, but since i waited i ruined my chances.

 

[ScrewIt]

Originally posted by goldenboy83

2) An important rule of thumb is to never ask a woman for anything because it comes across as insecure. So you would say "lets get together sometime... what's your number" instead of "You know I don't want to be too forward but can I please have your number?" *g*

thats exactly the way to do it, i did that w/ a friend's friend before the summer. i got the real # but flaked out on me when i called.
i guess i misconceived her interest in me.

but this goes to show that even if u may say something smoothly to get a # doesnt mean she wont flake.
a lot of times they give u their # and flake out on you as a way of not being mean to you. but of course girls dont want ppl to dislike them, so they come off this way. better to do it on phone than in person, no?

 

[Evil-Rom]

Originally posted Pimpologist
"I gotta go, lemme give you a call sometime, what's your number?